
Tickin:
Sorry, but that sounds more like a crappy cheap saddle than a rider weight issue.
Amen for the cheap saddle comment. I am not a small person; far from it. I bought a bob marshall treeless saddle this year and I have no problem hauling my big butt up into it without it slipping from the ground (I'm 5'4 and Dancer is 15.2, and like I said, I'm a HEALTHY girl, my friend's refer to me as "country strong" when discussing size
). Anyone that knows anything about treeless saddles know they are known for slipping; the fact that I bought a good one has made all the difference! HOWEVER, I see no reason why to put the extra stress on Dancer all the time. When I ride at the barn, well, its usually bareback, I use a block, chair and whatever is handy. BUT, I make sure I have no issues going up or down because we trail ride... And there is no worse embarassment then having to dismount on the trail and not be able to get back up!
The horse's frame and strength have everything to do with what he can handle. My daughter's little 14.2 900lb pony can drag my fat butt around all day long, and so can my beautiful boy, Dancer. On the other hand, our Paso, who is the same size as Penny, height and weight, well, I would not even attempt to ride him; he's just not in the same shape as the Pen-Pen and it wouldn't be fair. And I think I would look absolutely stupid on him 