You should not jump your horse until they're atleast five. In my opinion, four is pushing it even though I've trained that early. I would not even be riding hard under saddle at two yet, but that is just me. Jumping? That is way different than simply walking and light trotting at that age!
A straight pole jump, I agree, she is thinking of a vertical.
tcschulte:I She thinks it's funny or something to go really fast and act like she's going to jump, then refuse. I know she can jump it, she just won't.
My advice is don't jump her, it's simple.
And when she's old enough, you start with ground poles, then cross poles, and one foot verticals. I don't know why some people feel the need to start so young. :\